My colleague is on leave. His son's term examination is tomorrow. Yesterday when we met he looked very worried.
Looks worried! Anything wrong?
"Hey tomorrow is my son's term examination. He should be scoring good marks"
Why
am I am not worried I thought, my son is also studying in the same
class. There may be something wrong with me. Did I ever looked at his
marks? Probably I am one of that irresponsible fathers.
" I will be on leave tomorrow, if something comes up please take care for me".
Sure,
but you said you were taking him for tutions. Does that not help? I do
not want to do his work, so I am trying to persuade him to come to
office tomorrow.
" Well, Yes I am taking him to tutions everyday at 4AM.
There is tution in the evening too. But you know we need to be very
careful at this age"
What am I doing? When was the
last time I woke up at 4AM. Oh,, yes a few days back when I heard a
noise from my son's room. I went there to look and found that it was
only cat. My son was still sound asleep, did he ever woke up at 4AM?
Half of the office is on leave today. I am happy to see a few of my colleagues at their table.
"Hey why are you here? When is your son's examination?"
How
the hell I know that? Did we ever discussed about examination at home?
Whenever he is with me he would like to hear a story or he will have a
few questions about a few things that he had learned from his friends.
Did he ever discussed anything about his studies?
Now I am worried. Am I not a good parent? Do I understand
parenting and its duties? What I do is to have fun with my children.When
will the children have any fun otherwise? The school in which my
children are studying looks to be very strict. Does not look like they
have any fun at school. My children spends a lot of time in watching TV
and spends a lot of time on computer. That is wrong too. Am I failed
parent?
This is past now, the worries are a thing past now. My children has found their way in the maze of life.
Recently I had a hot discussion with somebody about having no innovations in our society. He says
"There is no real R&D happening in our country. They are just copying this from others"
No wonder. Is this not what we taught them? They copied
everything from their tuition masters. They did a lot of mugging up to
score high marks. How can they be different now? We have not told them
to think and select their own ways. We took them to tutions, we told
them when to get up and when to sleep, we selected what they have to
study and we also selected their life partners.
Perfect it s not?
Perfect it s not?
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